524 FORGIVE US OUR TRESPASSES, AS WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO TRESPASS AGAINST US

AVE MARIA

YOUCAT Lesson 524

YOUCAT the catechism for Catholic youth

524  What does it mean to say, “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us”?

 Merciful forgiveness—the mercy we show to others and the mercy that we ourselves seek—is indivisible.  If we ourselves area not merciful and do not forgive one another, God’s mercy will not reach our hearts.  [2838-2845, 2862]

 Joseph, seated,  who was sold into slavery as a young boy by his jealous older brothers,  forgives his brothers of their offense.  Genesis 45:4 …..524

Many people have a lifelong struggle with their inability to forgive.  The deep blockade of not being reconciled is resolved only by looking to God, who adopted us “while we were yet sinners” (Romans 5:8).  Because we have a kind Father, forgiveness and reconciliation in life are possible.  227, 314

 “If anyone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God whom he has not seen.”  1 John 4:20

 “Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful.”  Luke 6:36

  

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 "AND FORGIVE US OUR TRESPASSES, AS WE FORGIVE THOSE WHO TRESPASS AGAINST US"

2838 This petition [within the Lord’s Prayer] is astonishing. If it consisted only of the first phrase, "And forgive us our trespasses," it might have been included, implicitly, in the first three petitions of the Lord's Prayer, since Christ's sacrifice is "that sins may be forgiven." But, according to the second phrase, our petition will not be heard unless we have first met a strict requirement. Our petition looks to the future, but our response must come first, for the two parts are joined by the single word "as." --Catechism of the Catholic Church, Second Edition

2839 With bold confidence, we began praying to our Father. In begging him that his name be hallowed, we were in fact asking him that we ourselves might be always made more holy. But though we are clothed with the baptismal garment, we do not cease to sin, to turn away from God. Now, in this new petition, we return to him like the prodigal son and, like the tax collector, recognize that we are sinners before him. Our petition begins with a "confession" of our wretchedness and his mercy. Our hope is firm because, in his Son, "we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins." We find the efficacious and undoubted sign of his forgiveness in the sacraments of his Church. --CCC

2840 Now - and this is daunting - this outpouring of mercy cannot penetrate our hearts as long as we have not forgiven those who have trespassed against us. Love, like the Body of Christ, is indivisible; we cannot love the God we cannot see if we do not love the brother or sister we do see.  In refusing to forgive our brothers and sisters, our hearts are closed and their hardness makes them impervious to the Father's merciful love; but in confessing our sins, our hearts are opened to his grace. –-CCC

2841 This petition is so important that it is the only one to which the Lord returns and which he develops explicitly in the Sermon on the Mount.( Compare Matthew 6:14-15; Mt 5:23-24; Mark 11:25.)¹³⁷ This crucial requirement of the covenant mystery is impossible for man. But "with God all things are possible."( Matthew 19:26.)¹³⁸ –CCC

. . . as we forgive those who trespass against us

2842 This "as" is not unique in Jesus' teaching: "You, therefore, must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect"; "Be merciful, even as your Father is merciful"; "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another, even as I have loved you, that you also love one another."( Matthew 19:26.)¹³⁹ It is impossible to keep the Lord's commandment by imitating the divine model from outside; there has to be a vital participation, coming from the depths of the heart, in the holiness and the mercy and the love of our God. Only the Spirit by whom we live can make "ours" the same mind that was in Christ Jesus.( Compare Galatians 5:25; Philippians 2:1,5.)¹⁴⁰ Then the unity of forgiveness becomes possible and we find ourselves "forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave" us.( Ephesians 4:32.)¹⁴¹ –CCC

2843 Thus the Lord's words on forgiveness, the love that loves to the end,( Compare John 13:1.)¹⁴² become a living reality. The parable of the merciless servant, which crowns the Lord's teaching on ecclesial communion, ends with these words: "So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart."( Compare Matthew 18:21.)¹⁴³ It is there, in fact, "in the depths of the heart," that everything is bound and loosed. It is not in our power not to feel or to forget an offense; but the heart that offers itself to the Holy Spirit turns injury into compassion and purifies the memory in transforming the hurt into intercession. –CCC

 2844 Christian prayer extends to the forgiveness of enemies,( Compare Matthew 5:43-44.)¹⁴⁴ transfiguring the disciple by configuring him to his Master. Forgiveness is a high-point of Christian prayer; only hearts attuned to God's compassion can receive the gift of prayer. Forgiveness also bears witness that, in our world, love is stronger than sin. The martyrs of yesterday and today bear this witness to Jesus. Forgiveness is the fundamental condition of the reconciliation of the children of God with their Father and of men with one another.( Compare 2 Corinthians 5:18-21; John Paul II, Dives in Misericordia 14.)¹⁴⁵ –CCC

2845 There is no limit or measure to this essentially divine forgiveness,( Compare Matthew 18:21-22; Luke 17:3-4.)¹⁴⁶ whether one speaks of "sins" as in Luke (11:4), "debts" as in Matthew (6:12). We are always debtors: "Owe no one anything, except to love one another."( Romans 13:8.)¹⁴⁷ The communion of the Holy Trinity is the source and criterion of truth in every relationship. It is lived out in prayer, above all in the Eucharist.( Compare Matthew 5:23-24; 1 John 3:19-24.)¹⁴⁸ –CCC

God does not accept the sacrifice of a sower of disunion, but commands that he depart from the altar so that he may first be reconciled with his brother. For God can be appeased only by prayers that make peace. To God, the better offering is peace, brotherly concord, and a people made one in the unity of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.( St. Cyprian, De Dom. orat. 23:Patrologia Latina 4,535-536; compare Matthew 5:24.)¹⁴⁹ –CCC

IN BRIEF

2862 The fifth petition begs God's mercy for our offences, mercy which can penetrate our hearts only if we have learned to forgive our enemies, with the example and help of Christ. --CCC