Thursday, September 28, 2017

420 CHILDREN IN A FAMILY

YOUCAT Lesson 420
YOUCAT the catechism for Catholic youth

420  May a Christian married couple regulate the number of children they have?

Yes, a Christian married couple may and should be responsible in using the gift and privilege of transmitting life.  [2368-2369, 2399]




Four of my grandchildren in younger years. (L) Beth and Kenneth Bragg with (R) Emma and Michael Hurlburt. Since this photo was taken two more grandkids arrived also eligible for this lineup: Stephen Bragg and Leila Hurlburt! ….. 420


Sometimes social, psychological, and medical conditions are such that in the given circumstances an additional child would be a big, almost superhuman challenge for the couple.  Hence there are clear criteria that the married couple must observe: Regulating births, in the first place, must not mean that the couple is avoiding conception as a matter of principle.  Second, it must not mean avoiding children for selfish reasons.  Third, it must not mean that external coercion is involved (if, for example, the State were to decide how many children a couple could have).  Fourth, it must not mean that any and every means may be used.

“Natural family planning is nothing more than self-control out of love for each other.”  Blessed Teresa of Calcutta (1910-1997), Nobel Prize speech, 1979

Natural Family Planning (NFP):  A general term for methods of regulating conception that use the signs of the woman’s fertility cycle and knowledge about the fertility of the man and woman together so as to achieve or avoid pregnancy.

[2368-2369, 2399]
The fecundity of marriage

2368 A particular aspect of this responsibility concerns the regulation of procreation. For just reasons, spouses may wish to space the births of their children. It is their duty to make certain that their desire is not motivated by selfishness but is in conformity with the generosity appropriate to responsible parenthood. Moreover, they should conform their behavior to the objective criteria of morality: --Catechism of the Catholic Church, Second Edition

When it is a question of harmonizing married love with the responsible transmission of life, the morality of the behavior does not depend on sincere intention and evaluation of motives alone; but it must be determined by objective criteria, criteria drawn from the nature of the person and his acts, criteria that respect the total meaning of mutual self-giving and human procreation in the context of true love; this is possible only if the virtue of married chastity is practiced with sincerity of heart. (Gaudium et Spes 51 § 3.)156 –CCC

2369 "By safeguarding both these essential aspects, the unitive and the procreative, the conjugal act preserves in its fullness the sense of true mutual love and its orientation toward man's exalted vocation to parenthood." (Compare Humanae Vitae 12.)157 --CCC


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