“Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his
life for his friends”
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Ave Maria series
33. What does it mean to say that God is love?
If God is love, then there is nothing created that is not
carried and surrounded by his infinite benevolence. God not only declares that he is love, he
also proves it: “Greater love has no man
than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John
15:13). [218, 221]
Jesus said, “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends. You are my friends if you do
what I command you.” --John 15:13-14
No other religion says what
Christianity says: “God is love” (1
John 4:8, 16). Faith holds
fast to this promise, although the experience of suffering and evil in the
world today may make people wonder whether God is really loving. Already in the Old Testament God communicates
to his people through the words of the prophet Isaiah: “Because you are
precious in my eyes, and honored, and I love you, I give men in return for you,
peoples in exchange for your life. Fear
not, for I am with you” (Isaiah 43:4-5a) and has him say, “Can a woman forget her suckling
child, that she should have no compassion on the son of her womb? Even these may forget, yet I will not forget
you. Behold, I have graven you on the
palms of my hands” (Isaiah
49:15-16a). This talk
about divine love does not consist of empty words; Jesus proves this on the
cross, where he gives up his life for his friends.
Question from a journalist to
Blessed Teresa of Calcutta (1910-1997): “What has to change in the
Church?” Her answer: “You and I.”
“True love hurts. It always must hurt. It has to be painful to leave him, you would
like to die for him. When people marry,
they have to give up everything in order to love each other. A mother who gives life to a child suffers
much. The word ‘love’ is misunderstood
and misused so much.” Blessed Teresa of
Calcutta (1910-1997)
218, 221
God is Love
218 In the course of its history, Israel was able
to discover that God had only one reason to reveal himself to them, a single
motive for choosing them from among all peoples as his special possession: his
sheer gratuitous love.(Compare Deuteronomy 4:37; Deut 7:8; Deut 10:15.38 And
thanks to the prophets Israel understood that it was again out of love that God
never stopped saving them and pardoning their unfaithfulness and sins.( Compare Isaiah 43:1-7; Hosea 2.)39 –CCC
221 But St. John goes even further when he
affirms that "God is love"
(1 John 4:8,16.)44 God's
very being is love. By sending his only Son and the Spirit of Love in the
fullness of time, God has revealed his innermost secret(Compare 1
Corinthians 2:7-16; Ephesians 3:9-12.)45 God
himself is an eternal exchange of love, Father, Son and Holy Spirit, and he has
destined us to share in that exchange. --CCC